{"id":53855,"date":"2020-01-10T18:00:09","date_gmt":"2020-01-10T18:00:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thesageoak.com\/?p=53855"},"modified":"2020-11-11T09:43:55","modified_gmt":"2020-11-11T09:43:55","slug":"feeling-guilty-about-choosing-assisted-living-its-time-to-change-your-perspective","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thesageoak.com\/2020\/01\/10\/feeling-guilty-about-choosing-assisted-living-its-time-to-change-your-perspective\/","title":{"rendered":"Feeling Guilty About Choosing Assisted Living? It\u2019s Time to Change Your Perspective."},"content":{"rendered":"<h2><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Making the decision for assisted living care<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">The time has come to make one of the most important decisions about your mom\u2019s health: to move her into an assisted living facility. And you are probably wondering, is this the right decision? Am I abandoning my responsibility to care for her? Will it work out the way I hope it will? Not to mention wondering how you will help mom deal with her worries and uncertainties, because the decision for assisted living comes with a flood of emotions for you both. It represents a big change in everyone\u2019s life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Not only are you talking about a change in location, but a reversal in roles, where you become the caretaker for someone who once took care of you. Being in charge of important decisions for mom\u2019s care comes with a heavy emotional toll, and when it comes to something so crucial, you naturally want to get it right. You only want the best for mom, and you hope that your decisions will achieve that. But no matter how right the decision is, it\u2019s normal to feel guilty about being away from her. There are three reasons, though, that you don\u2019t need to feel guilty about choosing assisted living.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><\/h2>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Mom deserves top-notch care<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">I know it\u2019s very common for us to think that we are the best possible caretaker for mom because of our close connection to her, there are simply too many things that are outside the realm of our ability. We don\u2019t have the training and knowledge that can be necessary to help mom through some of the challenges of old age. We don\u2019t have the expertise to assist mom right away if something should happen unexpectedly. And despite how much time we devote to mom, we are not solely caretakers. We have many other responsibilities that demand our attention and time.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Sometimes, the very best thing we can do for mom is to allow her access to a higher level of daily care than we can provide. With the focused and knowledgeable care in a senior living facility, she will be able to get the care that best suits her needs and that is ready for any situation. Caretakers who have experience in working with seniors can help not only mom, but you as well, understand the road ahead so you can be better prepared.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">You need to be a strong emotional support for mom<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Any of you that have been in a caretaking role know that it is a physically, and most importantly, emotionally demanding job. And in many cases of caring for our own parents, we may be trying to do everything caretaking entails while also working at another job, taking care of our own household, and nurturing our other important relationships. The stress of trying to do all this eventually takes a toll on our physical and emotional well-being.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Putting mom into assisted living protects your own well-being, which will actually allow you to be more present for mom and a stronger emotional resource for her. Even with the assisted living facility and workers tending to her physical needs on a daily basis, she will still need strong emotional support and connection, which you can provide that for her because you have tended to your own needs instead of depleting yourself to the point of exhaustion and frustration. Imagine how much more enjoyable and meaningful your visits with mom will be when you are well-rested, clear-headed, and fulfilled in other areas of your life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">You can still be as involved as you want<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">A common source of guilt when choosing assisted living is feeling like you have abandoned your responsibilities to care for your parent. In truth, you can still have a very active role in the process and be a key figure in helping mom get the best care. You can visit frequently. At our locations here in Texas, we have an open door policy and encourage you to come by often. You can be in contact with the home regularly for updates and discussions about the best decisions for her care. You can ensure that mom is getting the most out of her new environment. You can be the strong leader and advocate for the care she deserves. The only difference is that now you have a support team to help with the day-to-day care so you can focus on the bigger picture and navigating the best path for her.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Stay focused on mom\u2019s care and not your guilt<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">I know that you may never be able to completely get rid of feelings of guilt, but I want to encourage you to find ways to move past it so that you can stay focused on what\u2019s best for mom\u2019s care. Having an objective third party to talk to can help you see things from a more logical place. And even writing things down sometimes can help you process your emotions on a blank page while sorting out what\u2019s actually best from a health perspective and not an emotional one.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt; color: #1f1f1f;\">Be sure to check out <a href=\"https:\/\/thesageoak.com\/contact-us\/\">thesageoak.com\/contact-us\/<\/a>\u00a0to schedule a tour so you can see for yourself how wonderful senior living can be.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Making the decision for assisted living care &nbsp; The time has come to make one of the most important decisions about your mom\u2019s health: to move her into an assisted living facility. And you are probably wondering, is this the right decision? Am I abandoning my responsibility to care for her? 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